Thursday, June 6, 2013

quick update...34 weeks

I'm getting ready for Ty's birthday party while he naps, so here's a quick update on baby girl.

I went to the doctor on Tuesday and all was pretty routine.  I only gained a pound in the last two weeks (and I've been eating ice cream or having a chocolate milk almost every night before bed), but I attribute most of that to the fact that I have to eat very little at meal time and am almost never hungry for snacks throughout the day anymore.  Just no room left in my belly for food!  My blood pressure was back down to 112/78, so no worries about the elevated BP last visit.  I'm measuring right on target as well.  This time my doctor pushed around on my belly to get a feeling of where the baby is.  This little girl is SO low that when she grabbed the underside of my belly, I gasped in pain.  I already feel like I'm stretched to the max down there, much less the added pressure of pushing!  Seriously, after a busy day, I tell Cooter that I think she might fall out!  I mentioned to the doctor that I thought she was still transverse across my belly, although I know she moves and curls up in different positions.  I have felt hiccups way down on my lady parts when she curls downward and way up high over my belly button when she curls upward.  The day before my appointment I felt a LOT of movement...not just kicks and jabs, but rolling and wiggling for a loooong time.  To my surprise the doctor told me she was fairly certain baby was breech.  No big deal as I'm having a scheduled c-section anyway, but just kind of ironic that I've carried both kids the same way when most babies are head down.  She said Ellie's getting herself ready moving herself up and down.  I told her I feel a lot of pressure in my right hip and down low and she also confirmed that baby is very low in my belly now.  I'm still not convinced that she stays breech all the time, but I can tell she is that way now.  I mostly get kicks and stretches in my right hip...literally, on the bone and it is very uncomfortable.  When she stretches out a huge knot appears on top (her head) and I get intense pressure down low and in my hip (her feet).  At times while she's stretching, her foot slips off my hip and goes shooting toward the side of my body.  Really freaky looking!  I've been saying this for a long time now, but this baby girl is SO active!  At any given time that I chill out and slow down, you can visibly see her moving around from the outside (unless its during her great morning sleep).  Cooter and I have a strange suspicion that she isn't going to wait until July 12, even though that date is 6 days early.  Guess only time will tell.  Back in 2 weeks and from there we'll go every week until she's here!  I have a pelvic exam next week to do the Group B strep test and check for dilation and effacing.  I did none of the above with Ty, did not progress even a little bit.  I'll be curious to see how things are going over the next couple of weeks!

34 weeks...36 days to go!

Until then, I have her nursery as finished as it can be.  Just waiting on Cooter to hang a mirror for me.  Clothes are sorted and organized according to size.  Big thanks to Jeremy and Nicole for letting me borrow a huge loot of Addison's things.  Thanks to them, I have a ginormous supply of newborn and 3 month clothes (hope this baby girl is little!), and I no longer need receiving blankets, bibs, or burp cloths because they had so many!  Waiting until after my shower for the last few staples.  I got her bedding washed and set up.  Yesterday I finished cleaning out her closet and put together the swing and bouncy seat.  A couple days ago Ty and I put the double jogging stroller together and even made a trip around the living room.  He even got his toy hammer and banged on the swing while I got it working!  We set up the rock n play (where she'll sleep at night in our room as long as she's nursing round the clock) and the pack n play changing table in our bedroom.  I even installed the infant carseat base.  I have 36 days until my c-section, but have this overwhelming urge to make sure things are ready!  I'm most stressed about Ty's whereabouts during the whole ordeal and packing a messy toddler to be away from home up to 5 days.  We have more than enough help with childcare...unless she comes unannounced or in the middle of the night.  With no parents within an hour's drive (or more if its rush hour), we're trying to figure out where he'll go until someone can get him.  I'm sure it will all work itself out!
my little helper in our new stroller

Back to my party planning!

Thursday, May 30, 2013

6 weeks to go!

The countdown is officially on!  Only SIX weeks to go until we meet our little Miss Ellie!  Part of me is still completely overwhelmed by the idea of being responsible for TWO kids (seriously, somedays I feel accomplished by the fact that I have managed to take care of the one I have!) and all that entails.  The other part of me is SO over this pregnant thing.  I hate to say that, especially because this is probably the last baby in the Maxwell house, but it is what it is.  I have reached levels of uncomfortable that I never knew with Ty.  He was a busy little man in the womb, but busy does not even come close to describing this one.  Morning, night, all afternoon...she is on the move!  Unfortunately, she has chosen to stay transverse across the bottom of my uterus, so all of this sweet endearing movements have actually become painful at times as she uses my hips as a kick board and punching bag.  Love taps, I know.  I'm just ready to see those arms and legs flailing about on the outside now!  I'm still carrying her all out front, even more so than Ty I think.  Since she is still sideways and probably over 4lbs now, I'm feeling a lot of round ligament pain and stretching in my sides.  Saturday was probably the worse pain I'd felt yet.  It actually made me a little nervous that she was thinking of making an early debut based on a few happenings that morning.  The pain in my back was most intense, but it lasted all day, not off and on like contractions.  Her movements were so uncomfortable about 5am that I ended up in the recliner trying to sleep.  She was extremely active that morning and when she settled down for her morning sleep (that's when she sleeps the best/longest), her positioning felt weird.  Between the back pain and pressure down low, I started telling Cooter that I thought she was going to fall out.  She was pressing so hard on my incision area that it physically hurt to stand or walk.  I was rocking the waddle though!  I went to bed that night and gave in to taking some Tylenol to help me sleep since I hadn't hardly slept the night before.  By the time I got up for my first bathroom break of the night, I already felt better.  By morning I was back to normal.  My best guess was that she was possibly pressing on my kidneys and that was causing the back pain.  Once I laid down for the night, she went off on her late night exercise routine and moved herself into a better spot...thank goodness!

My last appointment was a little over a week ago.  Quick visit, and everything looked good.  I gained 3 more pounds, which puts me up to a 19lb weight gain now.  My blood pressure was a little high for me 138/84, and I did have a bit of swelling the weekend before my appointment, but the doctor didn't seem worried since I hadn't created a pattern yet.  I swelled up a little bit this past weekend too, but in 90 degree humidity, who wouldn't?!?  I'm still wearing my rings, although about midway through the day, I can't take them off.  My belly measured back on target this last week too.  Baby girls heart rate was in the 140's, which is where is seems to have settled this last trimester.

Funny story from my appointment...  It was just Ty and I last week.  He sits in his stroller while I'm on the table.  The nurse brought the doppler over to listen to Ellie's heartbeat and as soon as she found it swishing away Ty smiled and started giggling.  Then I started giggling, which makes my belly move like Santa Claus.  From the embarrassment I started laughing more, and the poor nurse had to keep repositioning the doppler to get a recount.  She was laughing with us so at least I didn't make anyone mad.  I ended up having to stare at the ceiling until she got a good count.  Well the next morning Ty brings me one of his toys with a microphone on it.  He lifted up his shirt and started rubbing the microphone on his belly.  I asked him if he was listening for his baby (since he tells everyone that Ellie is in HIS belly) and he told me yes.  Made my heart melt.  He's been listening to his sister's heartbeat for months now, plus we go every 2 weeks, so he's been paying very close attention!

Ty is doing very well these days.  He is getting to be so big.  He talks like crazy now and is just a little boy through and through.  Today while I was working on some Pampered Chef orders he brought over his broom, moved the rug from in front of the door and swept the entry way for me.  Little things like that just crack me up.  He now goes down for naps in his bed and stays in his bed until he wakes up.  I had to prepare both of us for the fact that I can't carry him for a good month or so after I have my c-section.  Makes me sad to see him adapting so well and acting like a big boy.  We started reading big brother stories and I ask him questions about his sister.  Even though he can tell me all about her, down to the fact that she will drink milk, I still don't think he fully grasps what's about to go down in his little world!  More details on Ty when I do his 2 year update.  I promise pictures from his party and stats from his 2 year check-up.

Next doctor's appointment for me is Tuesday.  Only one more 2 week visit and then we're on to weekly appointments until she gets here.  That's only 4-5 more doctor visits...unreal.

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

I passed, new ultrasound pics, and more!

Once again I started blogging here and there in my free time and evidently never finished my post because here we are at 30 weeks and I already have new updates.  Hence the post title.  So, he's the last 4 weeks of my pregnancy in a nutshell...

I went in for my 28 week check-up as well as my glucose test and subsequent blood work.  I asked Cooter to stay home with Ty since I knew I'd be sitting the waiting room for at least an hour while my glucola did its thing.  I have to admit...it was actually quite peaceful going to the appointment by myself.  I very much enjoyed my quiet time and even got to read a little while I waited for my blood to be drawn.  Not that I don't enjoy Cooter and Ty's company with me when we get to hear little girl's heartbeat, but sometimes its just nice to be alone.  =)

All was still well with little miss two weeks ago.  Her heartbeat was ticking along in the 140's.  She was moving, but not like the spaz she usually is since I fasted before my appointment.  I guess I made her mad not feeding her.  My blood pressure was great at 114/78, no swelling, still measuring right on target.  By this time with Ty, I was measuring weeks ahead and they were concerned that his size meant I might have gestational diabetes.  Not an issue though, I just grew a big baby!  Most surprising of all at this appointment was my weight.  I am always paranoid about my weight gain since I seemed to receive a talking to at lots of appointments with Ty (even though I ended up only gaining 27lbs and lost it all in 5 weeks, thank you very much).  I lost weight in the beginning of this pregnancy from being sick and when I started to gain in the second trimester, I was gaining about 5lbs a month, which is a tiny bit over the 1lb/week average they like to see.  No one has said a word though.  Well this appointment I expected a 2-3lb weight gain since it had been 2wks since I was there last.  To my astonishment, not only had I not gained anything, but I lost a pound.  Don't worry...I'm not trying to lose weight, and at this point I could really care less if I get in trouble for gaining weight.  I 6-7lbs a month till the end and still be within a healthy weight gain range.  That was one reason for this week's ultrasound.  I'm wasn't worried though...I checked the scale a couple days ago and I had a couple pounds back on.  I think most of it had to do with fasting before my appointment.  Trust me, this little girl is growing.

Got my blood results back and I do not have gestational diabetes, nor am I anemic!  I do have an rh incompatibility because I have negative blood type (which we found out way back when we had our first miscarriage 4 years ago).  Its a formality that they make me do a blood test before administering my rhogam shot.  I was supposed to come in last week for my shot, but I honestly forgot until Thursday at which point I decided I'd just remind them about it at this appointment.

I am officially uncomfortable.  I remember occasionally being uncomfortable when I was pregnant with Ty, but it was usually after a busy day or a large meal.  I am uncomfortable pretty much 24/7 with this little girl.  She is still laying transverse across the bottom of my uterus.  Although she did flip the other day, it did nothing for the pressure I'm feeling.  The only difference I've noticed is her hiccups are now on my left side and her kicks on my right side.  I'm really hoping she will turn either head down or breech soon.  Since I'm having a schedule c-section, it doesn't matter how she lays, I just want some relief.  With Ty I had horrible pain in my right hip because his butt sat there for the majority of my pregnancy.  Its really hard for me to even sit up straight because it puts so much pressure on my lower abdomen.  Forget leaning forward for something...holy geez, I can't even breathe!

I've also developed a hideous case of varicose/spider veins.  They look more like spider veins, but the pain and symptoms associated with them are that of varicose veins.  Either way, they are not pretty at all.  I noticed a large patch of them on the back of my left thigh a couple months ago and actually thought it was a bruise until I realized it didn't hurt.  The longer they were there, the more they hurt.  After spending a long day on my feet doing a Pampered Chef show at Cooter's sisters, their crawfish boil, and holding my clingy, tired child all day (oh my gosh I was SO sore the next day), another patch of veins popped out on the back of my right thigh.  My legs feel sore all the time.  I now have another patch on the top of my right thigh, one of the side of my left leg and another one coming on top of my left thigh.  From what I've read, they may fade, but typically don't fully disappear after birth.  No offense to 80 year old women out there, but I feel like that's what my legs look like.  I work really hard to be able to wear cute shorts and dresses and my legs are so ugly now.  From a distance it looks like I'm covered in bruises.  I'm trying my best not to sit too long, stand too long, and exercise when I can.  Between my achey legs and her low position between my hips, I can't walk very long distances without needing to sit down and take a break.  Even standing to cook dinner makes my legs achey.  Pitiful.  Why is this happening?  Its just one of those lovely pregnancy symptoms that many women get.  Little girl is positioned on a nerve in such a way that its causing strain on my blood vessels.  Thanks to pregnancy, my blood vessels are already less firm from a hormone called relaxin, which allows the extra blood flow to makes it way through my body.  But it obviously has its negative effects too.  Just like stretch marks, I'll wear them with pride...they are my war wounds for the work I did to get this baby girl in our arms.

Seriously though...I think I'm done having babies after this!  

We went back to the doctor today for a check-up and ultrasound.  I think the ultrasound was because I've been measuring a little small and lost weight at last check, but they didn't say that.  We'll take the chance to see Ellie again...its been almost 10wks since we last saw her.  Right away the tech measured her heartbeat around 140.  She measured my fluid which looked to be just fine.  We also had her confirm that she is definitely still a girl!  I was unreasonably nervous that they told us wrong at 21wks, especially after I've bought clothes and bows and set her room up!  Baby girl was curled up in a little ball, but moving and active.  I was right a couple of days ago when I thought she had flipped.  But just since last night, she folded herself into a ball.  Her feet are definitely on my right side, and I get kicks in the side and into my hip.  Her head is around my belly button and sometimes she curls up tighter and her head goes just under my ribs and I feel her hands up high.  I'm hoping all this movement means she is working her way into more of an up and down position for my sake.  She kept a little hand up by her face the entire ultrasound (Ty used to always look like that too!).  Every now and then we'd catch a glimpse of the other hand by her head, fingers and all.  At one point a foot was by her head and then she'd move them both down together.  We got a good shot of her little piggies.  She weighs about 3lbs 2oz right now.  She measures a little on the small side, as do I, but my doctor specifically told me she's not worried right now.  She said she's small, but not to a point that anything is wrong.  Just a petite little girl like her momma!  As far as my stats this check-up...all was well.  I gained a couple pounds back (I think I'm up 16lbs total) and my blood pressure was good.  Quick visit and back in two weeks.

Ellie's profile shot...there's that little hand up by her face like I said.  That profile looks SO much like Ty's ultrasounds at the same gestational age!
Ellie's face...look at those fat cheeks!  She's waving hi!
Little piggies

We scheduled Ellie's birthday today!  My c-section is scheduled for July 12 at 10:30am.  So its official...she will be here on or before that day!  9 weeks from this Friday!

Thursday, April 11, 2013

22 months old and 26 weeks along



I cannot believe that we are a mere two months away from celebrating my sweet boy's 2nd birthday!  He's getting so big.  I say that all the time, but it seems like the past couple of months he has grown up so much.  Ty is the ultimate copycat.  He has to do everything we do, from gestures to actions to bodily functions...lol.  He loves to help me cook.  In fact, as soon as he hears me setting up for dinner, he grabs a chair from the kitchen table and scoots it across the room to stand up next to me while I cook.  He's usually more in my way than actually being helpful, but I power through it and let him help the best I can.  So what if dinner takes a little while longer to cook or we make a little bigger mess?  His favorite is helping crack eggs and stirring.  We're buying him a kitchen for his birthday.  He's going to love it!
This is what happens when Ty helps me cook!

taking out the trash

I wish Ty loved eating at meal time as much as he likes cooking.  I seriously dread meals (especially dinner) most days.  Whether he's just not hungry or being picky, I don't know, but I'm trying to stand my ground and watch the snacks he eats during the day and make sure that what he gets on his plate during meal times is a healthy option.  The weekends are usually a crapshoot for eating well, especially if we are away from home and/or have visitors giving Ty treats, so I have to be the bad guy all the other days of the week!  He definitely has a sweet tooth and knows which foods he'd rather be eating!  His favorite is marshmallows.  He will do anything for a marshmallow.

Bobbie put marshmallows in his Easter eggs!  

The most notable improvement in the past couple of months (really the past few weeks) is Ty's speech. He has starting talking so much lately.  He's been babbling constantly since infanthood, but now he's actually using real words with us.  New words come out daily!  I love hearing his little voice.  Currently he says momma and dada all the time, and uses them in conversation well.  He gives us goodnight kisses before bed and will say our name before we receive our kisses.  He can say Laila (our dog) and Gracie (our cat), but hasn't mastered Allie (the other cat).  He also says the word more really well and still continues to sign it.  He says milk instead of signing now and says "wawa" for water, whether its for him, if one of the animals is thirsty, or if we are watering plants.  He can say trash and becomes obsessed with the trash can if you don't throw away a banana peel immediately.  He says shoes when we get dressed and reminds me that I need shoes when I'm getting dressed.  He says ball really well.  That's one of his favorite toys right now.  I must say for a 22 month old, he throws quite well too!  The word bowl sounds exactly like ball.  He says duck, fish, deer, kitty, and horsie, and can make almost any animal noise we ask him too except the rooster.  He can also say Mickey Mouse, although, unless you're me and happen to have Mickey Mouse Clubhouse on TV, you'd probably have no idea what he's saying there.  I know he says other words, but I'm drawing a blank.  Funny thing is, when people are around he gets incredibly shy, at least at first, and he definitely doesn't talk as much even after he warms up.  So you'll have to take my word on the talking thing!  Most special right now...he says baby sister's name!  Reveal coming soon...

Ty loves bugs.  There are plusses and minuses to this recent discovery.  I am not such a bug fan myself (I don't mind June bugs, rollie pollies and such), so the fact that I can ask my toddler to put the bug outside pleases me.  He is a little too friendly with them though and I'm afraid he's going to grab the wrong bug one day.  Today there was a spider in the living room and I wouldn't have seen it if he wasn't trying to grab it.  I showed him how we kill spiders and throw them away.  Yuck!  His Bobbie and Aunt Lindsey both got him bug boxes for Easter and he LOVES them.  Its the perfect time to be collecting June bugs!

Ty is so good at entertaining himself...unless its anywhere near nap or bedtime (and near bedtime means the last 4 hours of his day).  For the most part, throughout the morning and early afternoon, he plays amongst himself.  He bounces from his room to the living room, playing away.  Occasionally he includes me in his play or wants me to read him books.  Its nice though because that time allows me to get some of my mommy type chores done.  We recently rotated his toys around from the living room to his bedroom and vice versa.  I feel like he naturally spends more time in the living room playing, so every 3 months or so I move the bigger toys around so they all get played with and he doesn't get bored.  It really works perfect because 3 months is exactly between his birthday and Christmas, so the toys get a full rotation before new ones arrive.  We already have way too many toys!  His favorites right now are his mega blogs (he loves to build towers), anything with cars to drive (most notably the Little People race track he got for Christmas from Jer and Nicole), his Little People animals, anything that includes a ball, or his push toys (he still plays with his walking toy that he got when he was 6 months old, and he loves his shopping cart and lawn mower).  And of course he still loves puzzles...he got two new ones recently and he's already an expert at them!



Since Ty thinks he is so big we recently bought him a toy to scoot around on outside.  Poor kid pushes him mower up and down the street while the big kids blow past him on their bikes.  He got a trike for his birthday last year that we can push, but his feet don't quite reach the pedals yet and we eventually get tired of pushing him back and forth while all of the other adults are socializing on the driveway.  He can scoot his car pretty good, but we usually find him pushing it around.  He inherited a little 4 wheeler power wheels that has been passed down amongst the neighborhood little boys for the past 6 years.  We charged it up and off he went!  Due to its age though, the battery didn't last long and its currently dead in the garage again.  Sis and Rupert just gave him another trike as an early birthday present.  His feet kind of reach the pedals, but he hasn't figured out how to push them yet.  Mostly he sits on it and rings the bell.

After hearing Ty being called a girl repeatedly (I suppose for the fluffy blonde curls on the back of his head), we bit the bullet and cut his hair.  He did so good!  I had her keep the back longer so we didn't lose all of his curls.  She cut 3 curls close to his scalp so I could save them and trimmed the rest.  His curls came back curlier though!  His hair is growing so fast now, it might be time for another haircut soon!


Ty has been sleeping in his big boy bed (crib set up as a day bed with a rail) very well.  We do bath, story time and as soon as I'm done with the book, he climbs right into bed by himself.  I read very quietly beside his bed and he usually falls asleep within a few minutes.  He recently learned to bust through the bedrail we had attached to his mattress.  I got tired of fixing it and one night we heard a blood chilling scream and we took off to his room to find that he had not only wiggled the rail out of place, but got his head stuck in the process.  No more rail after that.  Luckily the crib sits so low to the ground, we just lined the floor with a few pillows and he's never fallen out.  We have gone into his room in the mornings to find his whole bed emptied out, which means at some point he got up, but he stays in his room and goes back to bed, so that's all that is important.  I am ready to pull out the real toddler bed we have stashed away from one of our neighbors.  There's a lot of furniture rotating that has to go on first.  The crib and nursery furniture will come out of his room and go into the baby's room.  The dresser in the guest room (baby's new room) will go into Ty's room temporarily until he is ready for a twin bedroom set, and the guest bed will be moved into the office, so I had to sell my chair and ottoman that were in there.  None of that process has started yet and Cooter is gone the next 2, possibly 3 weekends.  At some point we have to prime, paint and put up crown molding and a chair rail in the baby's room.  I know we are out of town at least 1 weekend in May, 3 in June, and she should be here in mid July.  Lots to do!

Last month Ty has his first ever sick baby visit to the doctor.  He woke up one day with a pretty decent fever and slept off and on most of the day, which is very characteristic of his teething episodes.  So when the fever lingered the next day I didn't worry too much about it.  He seemed to have gained a little steam and was having an okay day.  By the third day though, I started to worry.  Usually a teething fever would've passed by then and my home remedies weren't working.  So I took him in.  I much prefer well baby visits, just FYI.  I purposely didn't redose his Tylenol before going to the doctor so we could see how his fever was.  I felt like a horrible mother though...his fever was 103.6 when we got there!  They brought him some Motrin (which I abruptly told them I was dispensing at 6hr intervals except this time).  They ended up drawing blood from his finger to check for infection...all came back clear, so they did a nasal flu test...which again came back clear.  So they wrote it off as viral and told me the fever should break in 24hrs or so since he'd had it 3 days already.  $89 later, and I took my sick kid home with nothing more than a band-aid on his finger.  Poor kid continued to run fever all weekend.  Even with a Tylenol/Motrin rotation round the clock, I could only get it down to about 100.  I slept with him for several days to help keep him hydrated since he was barely eating through all this.  In fact, when we went to the doctor he weighed just a few ounces more than he did at his 18 month appointment 3 months before.  So Monday morning I called the doctor and let them know that the symptoms were the same and the fever was persistent.  The pediatrician called me back and decided to call him in an antibiotic.  She said anything bacterial would've showed up on a blood test days before, but for good measure we would get some medicine in his system.  They guessed that whatever virus he had eventually led to a sinus infection.  The antibiotics seemed to do the trick.  Within 36hrs he was back to his old self again.  It was so wonderful to have our little boy back.

He cried during the blood draw, but was more upset about the band-aid put on his finger.  
He fell asleep in his favorite race car buggy at HEB when he was sick.

Ty was on antibiotics less than two days when I started feeling sick.  I had been having what I believed were allergy issues for a few days prior.  The yellow pollen on the pine trees was absolutely awful and my itchy watery eyes, coughing, and constant running nose all pointed to allergies.  I really don't like to take medication while I'm pregnant, but I got desperate.  It was SO hard to keep up with a toddler when I was feeling so awful.  When my teeth and upper jaw started hurting too, I caved in and went to the doctor.  Seems as if my allergies caused me to get a sinus infection as well.  A couple days on antibiotics and I was a new person too!  Mommies don't have time to be sick!

Before I get to the baby updates, I have to brag for a second.  My bestie Alaina and I recently went to see Maroon 5.  Amazing does not begin to describe the concert!  We bought the tickets back in October, so this was a very much awaited night for us.  We never go out and do anything like this, especially during the week, but we didn't feel at all guilty leaving the husbands with the kids this time!  This was the same day I went to the doctor, so I was pretty sick and couldn't stand for much of the concert because baby girl was getting so heavy, but I had a blast.  Owl City and Neon Trees opened up, and even though we only knew a handful of their songs, they were great too!   The best part of all was Adam Levine.  Yum.  We have a slight obsession with him.  We had floor seats and I'm pretty sure we convinced ourselves that we would be able to touch him.  Lol.  It was super fun and I can't wait to do it all again.  I vowed to not be sick or pregnant next time!

Baby time!  I went to the doctor today.  I am exactly 26wks and feeling every bit of it.  My second trimester energy is unfortunately gone.  But in that time I kept a super clean house, scrubbed the kitchen and hallway grout on my hands and knees, and got the flower beds cleaned out and replanted.  Now I just want to sleep.  All was well at my appointment.  I gained another 5lbs, but no one said anything about it.  Blood pressure was good and I'm measuring right on track.  Her heart rate was in the upper 160's this morning.  Baby girl is still laying transverse across my lower abdomen.  At this point Ty was head up and I could feel him up towards my ribs and down my right side, but she is completely 100% side to side, as she has been for quite some time.  I'm fairly certain he head is on my right side and feet to the left  based on where I feel movement and hiccups.  Seems like she should be running out of room to lay this way, but she shows no signs of moving anytime soon.  It actually makes walking long distances uncomfortable, so I haven't been exercising like I should.  She is SO very busy.  Seriously, Ty never moved this often.  Even at the appointment today the nurse commented how she was very active.  She laughed when I told her that mornings are not her busy time.  She is still a night owl, but does her pilates throughout the day.  She is starting to feel like she's rolling around and besides watching my belly jump from her kicks and punches, you can see it moving around like I have worms.  She is crazy when I lay down though.  Its not just a kick here or there, its constant kicking and punching, rolling and scooting.  Gymnastics might just be her thing.  She has moved up a little, more towards my belly button.  The downside to her position is that every time I bend over, I feel like I am crushing her and I can't breathe.  Seeing as most of our day is spent playing on the floor, this is creating a bit of an issue.  Its especially uncomfortable if I eat too much since she is laying on my intestines.  In fact, if I eat too much, or too much junk in one day, I will get sick again.  It makes me feel like I have morning sickness all over again.  I've thrown up 3 times in the past few weeks from such instances.  I thought I was past all of that!  I go back to the doctor in 2 weeks to take my glucose test and have some blood work done for that and to see if I'm anemic and check my rh level.  I already know I'm A- so I will just be waiting for a phone call to tell me to come back and get my rhogam shot.  Third trimester starts in one week...so 2 week appointments from here until 36wks!  I will most likely be scheduling my c-section around 32wks, if not in the next couple of appointments.  Things are getting real!

I'm pretty sure we have settled on a name and it doesn't include any of the ones mentioned in the last post.  We had it narrowed down to Elliot Leigh (call her Ellie) or Annie Marie, but then Alaina mentioned Paisley and we both perked up at that name.  So for a little while, Paisley moved to the top of the list.  Cooter was still very vague with his opinions and I needed his approval before naming her...and it was driving me mad that she didn't have a name yet!  Then one day he walked in the door and said I hope you don't get mad at me, but I don't love the name Paisley.  Fine by me, at least he finally said something.  Even better though, he said I like Ellie Renee (my middle name).  I love the name too!  No Elliot, just Ellie.  It stuck and we've been calling her that ever since.  Ty says it too.  When I point to my belly and ask him what's in there, he says baby.  If you ask her name he says Ellie. Even cuter...if you ask him where Ellie is, he lifts up his shirt and points to HIS belly!

We hosted Easter at our house this year.  It was a lot of fun having Justin and Emily here with Ty.  The kids died eggs together.  Cooter and I got up extra early to play Easter Bunny and hide eggs in the backyard and set the baskets out for the kids.  This was Ty's first egg hunt!  Ty's visit with the Easter Bunny wasn't too bad.  I expected tears, but instead he was just very uncomfortable.  Lol.  Next year Ellie will be in the pictures with him!  


                                      





Cooter was in a wedding this past weekend.  It was fun to see all of our friends in Austin again.  We definitely don't get up there enough anymore!  Here's a few pics of us all dressed up for the affair.  After the trip we went back by our property in LaGrange.  Last time we were there I was overjoyed to find a couple tiny patches of bluebonnets, but this time there were lots...enough for a mini photoshoot!  







Some of my favorite shots the past couple of months...
blowing bubbles with Aunt Nicole...he can blow them himself now!
 bubbles with Pop
 me and my boy!
 at Pop & Cici's house
 being silly on St. Patrick's Day
 how I caught him napping one day
 silly boy in his Elmo chair
 having a snack
 helping momma in the yard...he's got my Osmocote and a banana!
 on the road again...
 The piano finally made it to our house!  I was supposed to get it when we moved here 4 years ago.  Ty only knows it from Pop & Cici's house, so he was very weirded out about it being in our living room for a while!

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

the big reveal

We've known whether we're having a boy or girl for seven days now.  For those who are family or on facebook, you already know, but for my loyal readers, I dearly apologize for taking so long to post the gender reveal.  Ty got sick and it took him down hard (and I'm pretty sure its taking me with it now).  Enough suspense...

Although she remains nameless, baby girl is doing just perfect.  We had our ultrasound last week with Texas Children's and once again it was a phenomenal experience.  We got to watch her wiggling all over for a good 45+ minutes.  Besides enjoying the show, I thoroughly enjoyed being able to lay still in the middle of the day with no one asking me for anything.  They have a nice linen covered bed with a pillow to lay on, in a dimly lit room...they're lucky I didn't fall asleep!  Being that this was the anatomy ultrasound we  got to see the works.  Within minutes of starting the tech asked us if we wanted to know what we were having.  Um, yes please!  She said she would let us know as soon as she could see anything, but first she was going to start on the heart.  Next thing out of her mouth was, "oh the legs just crossed...wait a minute...its a girl!"  She even stopped what she was measuring to go show us her goods.  Definitely a girl!  Everything measured well, exactly where it should be.  Ty always measured ahead of his due date, especially in his head circumference, but baby girl looks to be right on time.  All body parts measured anywhere from 20w3d to 21w4d, and I was exactly 21 weeks at the time.  Her head, just like big brothers, is perfectly round.  Heart looked perfect, showing all 4 chambers and beating away.  They did a couple of averages because the baby was busy that morning.  On average, her heart rate was 155bpm.  Way higher than Ty's at this point.  Her spine is forming perfectly.  We got to see her bladder, stomach and kidneys.  We also got great images of her arms, legs, hands and feet.  Beautiful little blessing!  Busy is an under statement though.  I have mentioned before that she seems to be moving much more and much earlier than Ty at this time.  Now I know why!  At one point we could see five fingers spread out over hear cheek, then the next time she got a shot of her head, her knee was next to her face and foot way over her head!  It made me laugh out loud.  Overall it was a wonderful experience and we were left with such good feelings in our hearts about this baby's future.

sweet girl's profile
a little freaky, but here's her face...she's waving lol

little piggies


Not sure if I posted this already, but around 19 weeks, Cooter was able to feel her move on the outside for the first time.  I'll be 22 weeks tomorrow and in just 3 short weeks, baby girl has become so much more active.  As I was laying down to go to sleep last night, Cooter reached for my hand, which was on my belly.  He could feel her moving over and over again.  You can see movement on the outside already too.  I keep trying to get Ty to feel her, but he isn't really still enough to wait for it.  Sister is a night owl too.  Although I feel her throughout the day, the evenings and middle of the night are her exercise time.
here's me the morning of our ultrasound...21 weeks

We are beyond thrilled that we're having a girl.  Of course, the planner in me already had bedding picked out for both a boy and girl prior to our ultrasound.  The girl bedding was on sale though, so as soon as we got home from the ultrasound, I was online making a purchase!  Should be delivered today (although I have nothing I can do with it right now, it just excites me to see something PINK in the house )!  I also hit up a great consignment sale last Friday.  I scored huge on clothes that were barely worn and some still had tags on them!  I had my stroller piled with newborn and 3 month clothes, but had to get going because Ty had a dr appointment.  I ended up with 20+ outfits for $40.  I had a huge itch to go back, but Ty was not doing well following his appointment.  Cooter happened to get home early that day, so I shot back off to the sale to shop some more!  I ended up getting 31 onesies/tops, 11 pairs of pants (many are outfits with the onesies/tops), 4 pairs of jammies, 3 sleep sacks, and 2 burp cloths for $97.  I was so proud of my finds!  They are nicely sorted into size and folded in the guest room awaiting the move of the nursery furniture.  So much fun!

As I mentioned before, this sweet baby remains nameless.  We had Ty's name picked out before I got pregnant.  I had been compiling a list of names for the past month or so, but between Cooter and myself, we vetoed several and narrowed it down to 3 or 4.  We have looked at countless lists of baby names.  Friends and family keep sending us name suggestions.  We must decide soon.  Last night we narrowed it down to 2.  Cooter keeps telling me I can choose from here because he feels like he named Ty.  I'm freaking out because its such a huge decision!  I secretly have a favorite in my head, just not ready to announce it just yet.  I will give you the final two (middle names are not set in stone just yet)...

Elliot Leigh (we will call her Ellie)
Annie Marie

Thoughts, opinions?!?

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

transition

We bit the bullet and converted Ty's crib into a toddler bed.  A very sad mommy moment when your baby is (sort of) out of their crib.  We did it now because I'm just getting too pregnant to lean over the railing to lay him down once he's asleep.  Its not only uncomfortable for me, but it almost always wakes him up.  We'd also like to avoid buying a new crib for the baby.  In case you're wondering, no our child still cannot go to sleep on his own.  Our fault, yes, but up until now, I hadn't ever regretted my choice to hold and/or rock him to sleep.  Now I feel like I'm running out of time to teach him to sleep on his own before the baby gets here.  I don't have enough arms to rock them both!  Maybe if we evolved and mothers grew pouches like kangaroos, I could just keep a kid in there.  Weird, but I guarantee most moms would find great use out having a pouch!

Anyway, I have waited as long as I possibly could to make the move because Ty sleeps through the night so well in his crib.  I also know based on the condition of his blankets and such that he moves all over the place while he sleeps.  So I really wasn't in a hurry to take the crib away.  However, it got to the point where I either woke him up laying him down (and he completely panics at the thought of being alone when trying to put him to sleep), or I waited for Cooter to lay him down for me.  Cooter has been traveling a lot for work, so that has meant a lot of sleepovers for Ty in my bed while Daddy is gone.  I love snuggling with my baby boy, but we do NOT sleep well together.  He moves so much and inevitably has to be touching me at all times, whether that means sleeping RIGHT next to me or just laying on me however he should get comfy.  I dealt with it for a while, but the bigger I've gotten, the harder it is for me to move, much less sharing a bed with a toddler.  After another sleepless night, I went to Baby's R Us the next day and bought a bed rail.

Ty has a convertible crib, meaning we can use it as a toddler bed, day bed, and eventually a full-size bed.  We haven't ever bought the extra parts for the toddler bed or full-size version.  I actually saw the cheap bed rail working better than the $80 toddler rail conversion kit they sale for his crib.  So we converted his crib to the daybed option and placed the rail alongside the opening.  Its only been 2 nights, but so far, so good.

As soon as we broke the bed down, Ty jumped into his crib, giggling at the fact that he just climbed into his own bed all by himself.  I was feeling very hopeful.  After we installed the bed rail and put him in, he started to freak out as usual.  Its funny, he can wake up in the night and put himself back to sleep without any fussing, but trying to get him to sleep from the start is impossible!

Never fear, I had a master plan...kind of.  We were done doing the bedtime routine in momma's room.  Stories would be read and we would be putting him to sleep in his room.  I refuse the move the rocking chair into his room because I'm still faced with the same problem...I can't lay him down.  The first night got off to a bad start.  My mom had called and while I was on the phone with her, Ty fell asleep in Cooter's lap in the living room.  Cooter attempted to lay him down twice and both times he woke up and freaked out.  So I took him into his room and sat on the floor with him in my arms while I tried to figure out how to get him in his crib.  There was no way I would get up off the floor once he was asleep without waking him.  So I laid the rail down, laid him in his bed, he started crying, but I laid my head on his bed too and eventually he laid down with me.  Cooter spent close to an hour putting him to sleep and unsuccessfully laying him down, and I spent about 45 minutes getting him to sleep...altogether, bedtime took us 2 hours that night.  Within 10 minutes of me leaving the room he woke up.  Luckily he hasn't tried to get out of bed yet.  We let him fuss a minute and he went back to sleep.  He woke up 3 more times that night, crying hard.  So sad.  It never gets easier listening to your kid cry.  We held our ground because if this was like any other sleeping issue we've ever had, Ty has to do it on his own.  Last night was night #2.  We read our stories in his room, then I laid him in his bed.  He cried and tried to get up, but I got a big pillow and leaned on his bed and started reading one of my personal books with just his closet light on.  He laid beside me while I was reading, but since this book has no pictures and didn't interest him, he fell asleep pretty quickly.  He was comforted having me near and hearing my voice.  After he was out, I snuck out of the room and was shocked to learn it was only 8:18pm.  I felt like freaking supermom!  He didn't make a peep all night long.  He slept until 6:30am.  I'll take it!


Another reason for the ol bed switcheroo was because Ty quit napping in his room ages ago.  Fine and dandy for now, but again I feel like a ticking time bomb with  this baby coming in just over 4 months.  Not only, is there is no way he's going to stay asleep for a nap in the living room floor while I have a baby crying or playing, or just taking care of baby things, but I won't be able to carry or lift him for at least a month after my c-section.  I highly doubt they will be on the same sleep schedule for quite a while!  Yesterday was the first day I attempted naptime in his bed.  I will admit, I rocked him to sleep first and carried him to his room.  I successfully laid him down and he stayed asleep an hour and a half by himself.  I ended up holding and rocking him the last 30 minutes of his nap.  Major progress though!  Half the time he wakes up after that amount of time when he's on the floor too.  Today I did the same thing and knock on wood...he's been asleep in his bed for almost an hour and a half now.  I know I've eventually got to get him to fall asleep in his room for naps too, but we'll continue taking baby steps.

You know you're a mom when you just blogged 6 solid paragraphs about your son sleeping.  LOL.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

anatomy scan scheduled!

Well, Texas Children's called with my referral to schedule our anatomy scan.  I was oh so hoping for an appointment next week, but the soonest they could get me in was March 7.  So, 14 days and counting...  Yeah, yeah, its only one week later, but I am becoming ridiculously anxious to know what this sweet little thing is.  I'm tired of saying "it" and referring to "the baby."  Not that we have any names picked out yet, but him or her sure would sound nice.  By the way, we seriously have no names picked out yet.  We really don't discuss much baby stuff the first trimester due to our past history, and the one time we started to talk about it, Cooter pretty much vetoed every name I threw out there.  Since then we agreed to disagree and wait until we knew if it was a boy or girl and narrow down from there.  I've been making a list on my phone ever since...

This baby is on the move every day and getting stronger!  I don't have to be sitting still to feel it move anymore.  I love that feeling.  In the evenings I get kicks hard enough that I reach down to see if I can feel it on the outside yet.  Although sometimes I'm in denial that its just my own pulse in my fingertips, I'm pretty sure I felt a kick last night.  Cooter was already sleeping, so hopefully I can coax the little one into a few tricks tonight.

Hope I'm not jinxing myself, but I haven't been sick or at all nauseous in a good solid week.  Feeling much better overall, just still a little tired all day long, but nothing that will keep me down.  I'm so glad this pregnancy is becoming enjoyable!